DEAR DEIDRE: MY best friend is like my sister, but I want the man she has set her sights on.
We’re both 19 and last week she drunkenly kissed a guy at a nightclub.
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She remembered his name, looked him up and found the pub he worked in.
I suggested we go and he looked so sexy pouring pints.
She bought our first round of drinks but was hurt as he didn’t recognise her.
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I bought our second round. He winked at me and said they were “on the house”.
Would she hate me if I went on a date with him?
DEIDRE SAYS: I think you know the answer to your question, otherwise you would not have got in touch with me.
If you go behind her back, she will feel betrayed.
Why not test the water and ask her how she feels about this man since he didn’t recognise her.
If she is moving on, you could ask her how she would feel about you pursuing him.
Before making a final decision, ask yourself if you are prepared to lose a friend over a potential date.
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